Using ESVA for some years and still don't now how exactly SQLrey works...(shame on me)
What is use of White domains? I understant, that white domain is not sender domain used in from mail address. It is sender smtp server domain.
But...
I asked friend to send mail. His smtp server domain name - smtp.xxx.com. So before asking to send, I added smtp.xxx.com to white domain and asked to send email. Message was greylisted. Why? I clicked "forget" and took another try - added xxx.com to White domains and again asked to send email. No luck. Message greylisted again.
ESVA new install. No tweaks on SQLgrey.
